tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25472465.post116127669833649869..comments2023-10-29T05:07:39.105-07:00Comments on Out of Town: Grown up Cliques?Selenahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01131171115871320579noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25472465.post-1163480362778820422006-11-13T20:59:00.000-08:002006-11-13T20:59:00.000-08:00It's ridiculous, really...to be judged based on ho...It's ridiculous, really...to be judged based on how you dress and where you go to school. B'H, I have found a group of friends that can all agree on "the biggies": kashrut, Shabbat, tzniut. Just don't get us started on hashgafah...unless you want hair-pulling.cool yiddishe mamahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02585525985186658578noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25472465.post-1162342690255224712006-10-31T16:58:00.000-08:002006-10-31T16:58:00.000-08:00You can never escape these things. I try real har...You can never escape these things. I try real hard not to be that way. That can be accomplished by being talkative and introducing yourself to new people all the time and always making sure during Kiddush there is no one standing by themselves.FrumWithQuestionshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16669717584308348172noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25472465.post-1162250200137757252006-10-30T15:16:00.000-08:002006-10-30T15:16:00.000-08:00OutOfTown,Hmm, sounds like Mean Girls & Desperate ...OutOfTown,<BR/><BR/>Hmm, sounds like Mean Girls & Desperate Housewives have found a place in the frum world...Too bad, I thought *frum* Jews were above that sort of behavior. Guess it goes to show you that we're all human. But I wonder why we feel the need to exclude others because of it.<BR/><BR/>Keep the good posts coming! I hope these issues are resolved positively quite soon!<BR/><BR/>HilaAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25472465.post-1161789028035575522006-10-25T08:10:00.000-07:002006-10-25T08:10:00.000-07:00Cliques, unfortunately, do not die as people matur...Cliques, unfortunately, do not die as people mature. Children's cliques are often their way of emulating their parents. In fact, one of my girls said that a classmate openly invited some girls to her birthday party while leaving out others in the class. To one of them (it may have been my own daughter) she offered the reason, "My mother doesn't know your mother."<BR/>It is this type of thinking that shapes not only social groups but even carpools.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25472465.post-1161630194778092442006-10-23T12:03:00.000-07:002006-10-23T12:03:00.000-07:00Sadly, SL is right. It seems like every community ...Sadly, SL is right. It seems like every community is torn asunder by them at some point.Ezziehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12494592434522239195noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25472465.post-1161531971489748122006-10-22T08:46:00.000-07:002006-10-22T08:46:00.000-07:00Somehow I was under the impression that cliques di...Somehow I was under the impression that cliques died the longer you lived adulthood. Unfortunately, I've found that middle school lives on in adulthood and it just stinks. <BR/><BR/>Sorry to hear this.Orthonomicshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07892074485262548496noreply@blogger.com